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How I Live Without a Credit Card

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I am 29 years old, and I’ve never had a credit card – ever. I didn’t know this was unusual until other people were shocked and surprised that I have never had one.

Here are the main points that people like to know about my life without a credit card.

Why? Because I’m a Spender

The main reason I do not have a credit card is because I am a spender by nature. I just like to spend money. Having a credit card would be tempting for me. Some say that I don’t give myself enough credit and that the temptation wouldn’t be as bad as I think. However, these people are wrong. I know they’re wrong because I know myself better than they know me. I’ve actually dipped into my savings before for non-emergencies – just because I wanted something so badly. This is how I know that I cannot have a credit card. If my savings is at risk, I know that a card would be even more tempting for me.

Initially, I didn’t get a credit card because my grandpa told me that “using a credit card was like taking a mortgage out on your clothes”. This sunk in morally for me, and I decided I didn’t need a credit card. His point was more directed at carrying a balance on a credit card, which we can all agree is not a good idea, but I still decided I didn’t want anything to do with it.

Over time, I’ve deciding my personal temptation to spend money is high enough to warrant continuing to not have a credit card. This is why I use my debit card for almost everything.

I Use My Debit Card Like a Credit Card

I use my debit card for almost all of my purchases (the alternative being cash). I always choose “credit” when I’m paying with my debit card, because it’s best to minimize the use of your pincode as much as possible. In addition, Visa and MasterCard both have a business promise to provide zero liability protection on a debit card if you first, take reasonable care to protect your card and second, report the fraud in a timely manner. However, because any fraud on my debit card means direct access to my funds instead of fraudulent charges on a credit card – I take other measures to be proactive about protecting my information. I make sure that my card is up to date, and I’m usually issued a new card every one-to-two years.

I can stay at a hotel, rent a car, book a flight, and do anything else I’ve ever wanted to do by using my debit card. I always make sure I have a small cushion in my checking account, because in some instances, there will be a higher hold charge when using a debit card (e.g.: staying at a hotel).

Personally, I have never had a problem using a debit card as credit. That’s not to say it can’t happen – it just hasn’t happened to me. I know plenty of people who have had problems with credit cards and / or with debit cards. I make sure to monitor my accounts, and pay close attention to my credit so if there is any problem, I know about it immediately.

I Pay Close Attention to My Credit Reports

Because I only use a debit card, I am on heightened alert to pay close attention to my credit. I order my credit reports from the three main credit-reporting agencies (Experian, Equifax, and Trans Union) every year. I look for errors or fraud, and I report any incorrect information immediately.

My Credit Score

The biggest question people have for me is how I keep a high credit score. I have two responses. First, I actually do have a high credit score because of my student loan debt. I monitor it annually, and I know that it’s in good shape. I am aware that this won’t last forever, but it does work for now.

Second, I am not as concerned about my credit score. For me, credit is a “debt score”. Unfortunately, our system measures your creditworthiness based on how much debt you have and have paid off, not on how much you have in assets. For example, you could have $2 million in the bank, but if you never took out a line of credit (debt), you wouldn’t have a credit score and wouldn’t be able to get financing. I wish that the underwriting was different and that assets were measured and included, but since they’re not, I understand the need to have a high credit score if you want to buy expensive things, like a car or house.

My personal financial goal is to be financially free, without debt. I don’t want to take out more debt, so I am not as fixated on having a high credit score.

I am not so naïve to think that I may never need my credit score (particularly if I want to buy a house), but my goal is to live according to my personal values, and not have my credit score be a determining factor in my financial decision-making. I will likely revisit this when my student loans are repaid, but it will probably be in the form of financing something when I have cash in the bank to pay for it solely for the purpose increasing my score, as opposed to using a credit card. I do not foresee me ever using a credit card.

I understand that people without student loan debt may need to use a credit card to get a high credit score, but this just hasn’t been my experience. Personally, I have student loan debt and I am a spender, so it doesn’t make sense for me to have a credit card.

Points I Give Up

People also swear by their credit cards for the points that they get for spending. They go on trips and get material things that I cannot get for free by using a debit card. This is one area where I am aware of the perks I’m missing out on.

For me, I compare the perks I’m giving up on the one hand to the certainty for being consumer debt free on the other hand. I am a spender and I like to buy things. I would much rather not having the temptation and remain consumer debt free than benefit from credit card perks.

I think I could get a few free flights out of having a credit card, which would be amazing on the budget I’m on; however, I am certain it would not be worth it if I got into debt and couldn’t repay my card every month.

This is a personal choice that works for me.

I Don’t Like Debt

I don’t like debt, and I don’t like being tempted to spend more money than I otherwise would. I am committed to repaying my student loans and building wealth. Personally, I am not focused on credit card rewards or building my credit.

I like my life without a credit card, and I plan to keep it that way. It works for me.

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23 Ways to Get an Engagement Ring Without Going Into Debt

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23 Ways to Get an Engagement Ring Without Debt

A marriage proposal can lead to much happiness, but it also can mean having to purchase an expensive engagement ring and, subsequently, getting into debt. If the diamond industry has anything to say about your engagement ring purchase, you’ll spend anywhere from one to three months’ salary on a diamond engagement ring. On average, couples spent $4,000 on engagement rings in 2012, according to a 2013 report from Jewelers of America.

However, a little forethought and some creativity can lead to significant savings and even a debt-free engagement ring. Think of it this way: It can be far more romantic to propose with a paid-for ring than to drag the equivalent of a car payment into your marriage. Here’s how you can purchase that ring without breaking your bank.

Set a budget

1. The first step you should take in the ring-buying process is setting a realistic budget for yourself. Don’t just go shopping with no maximum price in mind, as that may lead to you making a purchase you can’t really afford. If you know what you want to spend beforehand, and make sure you stick to that, you are already showing the kind of discipline that can help you avoid serious debt.

Heirlooms are a wallet’s best friend

Jewelry passed from generation to generation denotes sentimentality and fiscal prudence. Ask your family, or your future spouse’s family, if they have any heirlooms they would like to pass on. Keep in mind: Heirloom jewelry will be free, but the service and upgrades can run from a few hundred to several thousand dollars. If you do obtain an heirloom ring, consider these three options.

2. Leave the ring intact (except for resizing and repair).

3. Create a new setting for an heirloom diamond.

4. Incorporate a new band into the old ring design.

Buy your diamond on the cheap-ish

Real diamonds are never truly inexpensive, but knowing what and when to buy can save you a bundle.

5. Shop in the summertime. Because winter proposals are very popular (think Valentine’s Day), it can make a lot more financial sense to buy your diamond in the off-season. The summer months can offer stable pricing at a discount.

6. Buy diamonds shy of critical weights. If you want a full-carat diamond, look for something around .9 carats instead. You’ll get close to the same look at a nice discount.

7. Look before you buy. Compare diamonds at various areas of the color and clarity spectrum. If you can’t tell the difference in the diamond’s appearance, choose the less-expensive option. Also, be sure to comparison shop at different retailers; don’t just go with the first ring you love, as you may find something very similar, for less, at another shop.

Replace the diamond, save the difference

Thanks to the diamond industry’s multi-decade, multi-billion dollar advertising campaign, diamonds remain the most popular stone in engagement rings, but forgoing the traditional gem can save you thousands. Consider these emerging trends.

8. Choose synthetic diamonds. Diamonds created in labs share the same properties as mined diamonds, but they cost up to 75% less than traditional diamonds, and they are a great choice for those seeking to avoid conflict diamonds.

9. Replace a diamond with moissanite. A gemologist will never tell you this, but moissanite (a synthetic material) is the hardest gemstone used in jewelry next to diamonds, and it ranks high on clarity and color scales, too. It’s not a valuable gem, but it is beautiful. (Pro tip: Ask your future spouse before you go this route. Many people do prefer authenticity.)

10. Pick an alternative gemstone. Pearls or jade are popular choices outside of the United States, and garnet and topaz are gaining popularity stateside. If you want something out of the ordinary, consider alternative gemstones, but be aware that some gemstones are actually even more expensive than diamonds.

11. Skip gemstones altogether. Ornamental rings (especially knots) are popular choices for those who want to skip traditional gemstones. Handcrafted gold rings can be purchased for as little as $200 on Etsy.

Forgo tradition

Some of the best ways to save money on engagement rings involve breaking tradition, and some couples are more open to an alternative ring style than others. These are a few ring choices that definitely buck tradition.

12. Wooden rings: Wooden engagement rings occupy a large niche in the market, and can be a cost-effective alternative to precious metals. Wooden rings run anywhere from $50 for simple bands to several thousand dollars for rings that include ornate details and gemstones.

13. Tattooed rings: Some couples chose to get tattoos instead of rings, citing that nothing says forever quite like a tattoo. Keep in mind that this may be a dangerous option, as you will have a much harder time removing a tattoo than a ring if your relationship ends (either before or after the marriage).

14. Leather rings: Leather rings can include braiding, engraving and colored beads, among other stylings, and will certainly save you a bundle compared to a diamond. If you don’t want to go with real leather, faux leather can work as well.

15. Go dutch. If the ring in question is outside of your price range, consider asking your sweetheart to split the cost with you. As you’ll be combining finances after you’re married, this may actually lead to some great money-focused conversations.

Save money now, upgrade later

If your partner has a big diamond taste, but you’ve got a small budget, then consider upgrading later on. Here’s how.

16. Propose with costume jewelry. If you think you can save up for the real ring by the time of your wedding, an inexpensive piece of costume jewelry may be just right for the proposal.

17. Build as you go. Start with a simple band and stone, and add more or bigger gems for anniversary milestones, or upgrade when you can afford it.

Buy used

Consider buying a ring that already has a history. You can have the ring professionally cleaned to give it new beauty and make it “yours.”

18. Visit pawn shops. You may be buying the ring of a recent divorcee, but the savings can be irresistible.

19. Search estate sales. If you regularly shop estate sales, you might uncover a vintage ring at a spectacular price. Rings that aren’t presented with a certificate of authenticity will give you room to negotiate on price, but you may accidentally buy overpriced junk. This technique is best for people with an eye for authenticity.

20. Shop on eBay. Pre-owned rings from eBay can represent about a 30% discount over identical new rings, and many owners provide certificates of authenticity.

Creative ways to get cash

Whether you’ll spend a few hundred dollars or thousands, an engagement ring doesn’t have to mean big debt. Consider a few creative ways to save the cash you need to pay for a ring in full.

21. Sell your memorabilia. Your partner may not be too enthusiastic about your KISS memorabilia, or your 27 signed hockey jerseys. Selling these to help pay for an engagement ring will be a double sign of your love.

22. Save up, way in advance. If you’re not currently in a serious relationship, but you think you’re the marrying kind, consider setting aside some cash for a future ring purchase. While some people may find this a strange thing to do, there is no harm in being over-prepared. If you don’t end up using the money to buy a ring, it will be on-hand for other potential purchases (think a wonderful vacation, or a luxury item you really want).

23. Get a side hustle. People are increasingly taking on side hustles to earn extra cash, even if they have full-time jobs. This can include selling your artistic creations on Etsy, becoming an Uber or Lyft driver or writing freelance articles. Then you can put all the extra money you earn into an account for a ring.

Consider a personal loan

It is definitely ideal to be able to purchase an engagement ring without going into debt at all. However, if you simply have to finance at least part of the ring’s purchase, you might consider a personal loan, as you may be able to get a better interest rate than with a credit card, depending on your own credit and where you are able to obtain your loan.

Bottom line

Getting married can be an expensive undertaking, and you don’t want to put yourself in a difficult financial place just by purchasing the engagement ring. Keep in mind the alternatives to the traditional pricey diamond, and also remember that the love you share with your partner should be far more important than buying a ring with a sky-high price tag. Avoiding debt as much as you can also means you’ll be starting off your new marriage on a financially healthy note.

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What Is Mortgage Amortization?

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One of the biggest advantages of homeownership versus renting is each mortgage payment gradually pays off your mortgage and builds equity in your home. The difference between your home’s value and the balance of your loan is home equity, and your equity grows with each payment because of mortgage amortization.

Understanding mortgage amortization can help you set financial goals to pay off your home faster or evaluate whether you should refinance.

What is mortgage amortization?

Mortgage amortization is the process of paying off your loan balance in equal installments over a set period. The interest you pay is based on the balance of your loan (your principal). When you begin your payment schedule, you pay much more interest than principal.

As time goes on, you eventually pay more principal than interest — until your loan is paid off.

How mortgage amortization works

Understanding mortgage amortization starts with how monthly mortgage payments are applied each month to the principal and interest owed on your mortgage. There are two calculations that occur every month.

The first involves how much interest you’ll need to pay. This is based on the amount you borrowed when you took out your loan. It is adjusted each month as your balance drops from the payments you make.

The second calculation is how much principal you are paying. It is based on the interest rate you locked in and agreed to repay over a set period (the most popular being 30 years).

If you’re a math whiz, here’s how the formula looks before you start inputting numbers.

Fortunately, mortgage calculators do all the heavy mathematical lifting for you. The graphic below shows the difference between the first year and 15th year of principal and interest payments on a 30-year fixed loan of $200,000 at a rate of 4.375%.

For the first year, the amount of interest that is paid is more than double the principal, slowly dropping as the principal balance drops. However, by the 15th year, principal payments outpace interest, and you start building equity at a much more rapid pace.

How understanding mortgage amortization can help financially

An important aspect of mortgage amortization is that you can change the total amount of interest you pay — or how fast you pay down the balance — by making extra payments over the life of the loan or refinancing to a lower rate or term. You aren’t obligated to follow the 30-year schedule laid out in your amortization schedule.

Here are some financial objectives, using LendingTree mortgage calculators, that you can accomplish with mortgage amortization. (Note that MagnifyMoney is owned by LendingTree.)

Lower rate can save thousands in interest

If mortgage rates have dropped since you purchased your home, you might consider refinancing. Some financial advisors may recommend refinancing only if you can save 1% on your rate. However, this may not be good advice if you plan on staying in your home for a long time. The example below shows the monthly savings from 5% to 4.5% on a $200,000, 30-year fixed loan, assuming you closed on your current loan in January 2019.

Assuming you took out the mortgage in January 2019 at 5%, refinancing to a rate of 4.5% only saves $69 a month. However, over 30 years, the total savings is $68,364 in interest. If you’re living in your forever home, that half-percent savings adds up significantly.

Extra payment can help build equity, pay off loan faster

The amount of interest you pay every month on a loan is a direct result of your loan balance. If you reduce your loan balance with even one extra lump-sum payment in a given month, you’ll reduce the long-term interest. The graphic below shows how much you’d save by paying an extra $50 a month on a $200,000 30-year fixed loan with an interest rate of 4.375%.

Amortization schedule tells when PMI will drop off

If you weren’t able to make a 20% down payment when you purchased your home, you may be paying mortgage insurance. Mortgage insurance protects a lender against losses if you default, and private mortgage insurance (PMI) is the most common type.

PMI automatically drops off once your total loan divided by your property’s value (also known as your loan-to-value ratio, or LTV) reaches 78%. You can multiply the price you paid for your home by 0.78 to determine where your loan balance would need to be for PMI to be canceled.

Find the balance on your amortization schedule and you’ll know when your monthly payment will drop as a result of the PMI cancellation.

Pinpoint when adjustable-rate-mortgage payment will rise

Adjustable-rate mortgages (ARMs) are a great tool to save money for a set period as long as you have a strategy to refinance or sell the home before the initial fixed period ends. However, sometimes life happens and you end up staying in a home longer than expected.

Knowing when and how much your payments could potentially increase, as well as how much extra interest you’ll be paying if the rate does increase, can help you weigh whether you really want to take a risk on an ARM loan.

The bottom line

Mortgage amortization may be a topic that you don’t talk about much before you get a mortgage, but it’s certainly worth exploring more once you become a homeowner.

The benefits of understanding how extra payments or a lower rate can save you money — both in the short term and over the life of your loan — will help you take advantage of opportunities to pay off your loan faster, save on interest charges and build equity in your home.

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